Sometimes you can’t figure out the truth. Usually you’re asking the people that are somehow invested in you, for brutal honesty, even though the majority of these people will tell you what you want to hear, or what they want to believe because they don’t even want to accept the truth. Instead of going in circles, go out and get twenty random ass people that have nothing to lose because of their opinions. Ask them what they think. After you do that, don’t ask for any other perspectives. Accept THOSE answers.
More importantly, accept the fact that you’re not going to ever know the real truth when the person you love lies to you.. Sometimes the only truthful answer you could possibly have will be the common sense from 20 unbiased people.
When we care about people, we believe the most far-fetched fantasies to help us cope with our own actions, as well as their actions. Our intuition then becomes…blurred.
You should never put your life on hold in order to decide what the truth is. The memory of truth no longer remains pure when put into the hands with the mind of a liar.
Stay strong loves.